Assalamualaikum dun-ya,

living is a situation where you cannot run away from having a thought called as 'perception'. the perception come from your heart and mind. Perception is a definition of something or someone that you perceived from your very own perspective or in other word from your point of view.

perception is very very very subjective. for example, some people perceive that the dress is blue and some other think that the dress is gold from their view. thus, perception can neither be true nor wrong.

however, when it comes to perception on human, many can hurts. why? because human have feelings and their feelings can be express or can be known even without being expressed. day by day, people getting hurts by being perceived as someone who they are actually not. but, they don't have the chance to explain themselves, they don't have the chance to show their true values, they don't have the chance to prove that others perception are wrong.

what do you feel, if you are the one who is at the place? Hurt.

yes, it is seems to be desperate to explain to each and every people about who we are in order to avoid from being perceived wrongly. however, in opposite situation, let's not perceived people smile as a threat, don't perceived people good deeds as an acting, don't perceived people praise just an act to flatter you. they may genuinely smiling because they happy for you, they might be helping you because they really understand your difficulties, they maybe sincerely praising you because they know you deserve it. thus, seek the beauty of every human being instead of keep on having bad thought on them.

i'm spreading this message, because i've seen a lot of people being hurt by this act. and frankly speaking, i did the same mistake too. and i felt a great guiltiness. im hurting people. i hurt the innocent.

and i want to apologies to each and every of you, whoever reading this, if i had perceived you wrongly which i am not able to reach each and every person. i am sorry.

let's fill our heart and mind with good thoughts. so does to our Creator, Allah S.W.T. every of the challenge is how He shows His love. every difficulties is how He strengthen us. everything in every way is actually a beauty.